marriage

John 3:16,1Cor 7:3, & Deu 6:5A
marriage starts with a proposal. The man is usually the one who humbles himself and asks for a promise of sustaining love. Then there is a ceremony of unity. The man is usually thought of as the provider and the decision maker. Married couples are to love each other unconditionally and forsake all others.
The Bible tells us that marriage between a man and a woman parallels that of the marriage between the Spirit and the bride (church).Is it so different?
The Lord calls us, looking for a promise of love. We are baptized as a sign of obedience and as a witness to the union. God is our provider and He is the one who makes decisions for us. We are to love Him unconditionally and forsake all others.
Why then do we second guess our spouses? Why then are we ashamed to show love and affection? Why is it so hard to be sub missive to your husband? Why do we choose to say "I'm fine."?
Why do we second guess what the Holy Spirit gives us? Why are we ashamed to pray, sing praises, and show love for Jesus? Why is it so hard to follow His rules? Why do we choose to run away when we are convicted of our sins?
The same things that can destroy a marriage can also destroy your salvation!